Still chaste with anal

Around the world, lots of women in traditional cultures that emphasize a woman being a virgin at marriage have figured out they can do other sexy things and not break their hymen, like oral both ways and anal. Are you a girl like that? Have you ever had the thought, if I could take it in my ass and still be a virgin before marriage, then what's different after marriage? I promised him his is the only cock for my pussy. I can keep my promise, suck and buttfuck any cock I want, and still be his chaste wife. Same logic, really. What do you think?