aitah For not wanting to get back with my ex after I broke up a day after my birthday?

I, a woman, have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years, 2 days ago it was my birthday and yesterday he decided to break up with me, the reason is not very relevant, but let’s leave it at that he felt very overwhelmed and made that decision on impulse, we were talking in the afternoon after breaking up at times and trying to decide what we would do next, we had said goodbye and we had said that it would be definitive, but then he sent me many messages saying that he didn’t want to finish (I didn’t want to either) so I proposed to take a (time) to continue talking but without being a couple for a Time until we solve our personal issues and eventually see how things are going and when the moment was good for both of us, that he asks to be his girlfriend (he never asked me in the previous relationship and I always wanted that) first he said yes, then that he would think about it and in the end that no, that he wanted us to go back and that’s it, that later he would ask me but that we are already together, I told him that I wanted to do things well and he took things out of me from the past (when we were just a few months I finished it a couple of times and we returned as if nothing) And similar things leaving me like (the bad one) and well I told him again that I wanted to do things right, that’s when he told me that it was better then not and that he didn’t think he would ever come back with me, we said goodbye again and after a short time he told me again that he accepted my condition (wait a little and ask me to be his girlfriend) today again he told me that he had to think about it.

I’m the bad one for not wanting to get back with him after he left me a day after my birthday and wanting to wait for him to ask me to be his girlfriend again in a nice and good way?