Story of how my partners made me realize

I wrote this comment on the reddit "penis size" to the post "When and how did you find out you're bigger than average ?" As I took some time to explain the whole story, might as well just share it here. Feel free to share you're own story too if it's fun. I never told this to anyone besides reddit but here seems the proper place.

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At 15 i had no clue cause : i stayed with my first girlfriend and partner for a long time and we were each other's first. She was almost always sore after we did it but we assumed it was a normal thing or that we were just too inexperienced. After two years we both had other partners but we ended up back together. First time we fuck again, she suddenly moans "oh fuck pound me with your big dick i'm gonna cum" - i was surprised since she never said something like that before and used to be shy in bed. She confessed later that she met taller guys expecting them to have bigger dick cause she wanted to try but they were smaller by a good margin - and from that point she praised my dick alot. She also told me to stop going too deep tho cause it was a bit painful. I didn't care much as i thought i was barely above average from my experiences with other girls. I still assumed it was mostly her being tight and that she wanted to give me confidence. It was a great relationships, she is still the only girl that ever had the skill to take me whole in her mouth.

Then we broke up. During vacations, I ended up messing around with another girl that was in a toxic couple and was really frustrated in bed at home. She was way more experienced than previous partners on sex and i liked it a lot. First time she sucks, she only takes half of it, i ask if she can go deeper. She tells me "no way i try to take that deeper in my mouth dude i'm almost gagging already". I was a bit surprised as my last regular partner could. I just assumed she had a small mouth and respected her limits. Then we fucked some times and she never made a comment on the size, althought looking back at it she was sore and got 2 urinary infections the first week despite us using lube and her being wetter and less tight than the previous partner (i had this kind of troubles with most girls so i was used to that being a thing). Still I didn't get it, I thouht we just needed to ajust xD - at this point I'm passed 20.

Later, a month into sex relationship, a talk happens, that is the turning point. It goes like that. She asks me if I notice a body diff between my past partners and her as she was insecure. I tell her i never had a girl being this horny before (laughing) and that I love it, I tell her that she has the body and mind of a godess and I would treat her like one if we were together (i hoped she could leave her toxic boyfriend as I was in love). "And you ?" I ask her. Her face goes a bit red. "Well I sure felt a big diff somewhere..." she slowly stares at my bulge. "It's not easy to take that inside... i guess you noticed me struggling a bit." (in my head i'm like Ooooh that's why she was gasping like that... okay i guess my bad) "I can go slower and less deep... i'm sorry I thought you liked when I was going all the way" i apologized. "No no you were right... I love it when you go rought and deep, noone made me cum that hard before. You can go even harder but we need to stop doing it more than three times a day." "So i'm actually big ?" "Your last partners havent told you ?" "Well ... I sort of assumed it was a play to get me confidence." She laughs. "Well truth be told you're longer than average... not THAT much, still, you're hitting the cervix pretty hard. But it's... thick. Like really thick. When it goes in, I'm always like, fuuuck, i'm streched". "Oh wow. Actually you're the first that simply just... tells me how it feels. I'll be more aware now." "Maybe i wouldn't tell if I wasn't so drunk... but yeah. It's a such a good fit for me. It's irritating a bit tho but i could get used to it." "So get used to it" i reply. She smiled and we went on another matter.

She indeed got used to it, she broke up with her boyfriend soon after. Best partner i've ever had and the only girl that went full honest about what she felt my size was.