AITA - Hes being selfish

AITA- He's being selfish.

5 Months ago I met a boy online, we instantly clicked when I told him about my traumatic life. We live in different states 6 hours apart. We talked every night and have shared sexy times via video. I've told him how lonely I am in life, I've told him that I can't help at times being uncaring because of my trauma, I've told him I need his company and his full attention when I call because my family is messed up and never loved me but I love him. I've told him I'm bi but prefer women and haven't ever had a relationship with a man. He's so understanding and caters to all my needs, he's even stopped talking to friends because they don't understand our relationship nor my trauma. About two months ago he had to travel to Canada for a family thing and I cried because we wouldn't talk much, he understood and suggested that I find a gf to keep me company in case I feel lonely (he knows I get lonely because of my trauma) so I leaped at the chance. I met someone and we now live together side note she can't stand men. Now he's mad at me because I don't give him as much attention, I date my gf, when I talk to him online, he gets mad because I kiss my gf and make him listen to her well you know. He knew all my trauma and how it affects me and he's being selfish being mad when it was his suggestion. Am I the asshole?