"Well you can always get it reversed:)"

RANT

My surgery is tomorrow. Last night, I'm sitting down with my dad and brother at the bar. We get on the topic of my surgery. I apologize to my dad, somehow I managed to forget to tell him until my mom mentioned it to him. He said it's cool and was just asking the basics about it, when would it work, how long for it to heal, etc etc. I'm very obviously excited about it. And then he says "Well you can always get it reversed WHEN you change your mind." I'm like WTF. I'm used to getting comments like that and usually just brush it off because you never know, there might come a day where I do change my mind. But even then, I'd much rather adopt. But my dad said WHEN. Like he somehow magically knows I'll change my mind eventually. It just fucking bugged me so much. I never thought of it, but it might actually be 20+ years until people realize "Oh, she's actually never having kids?!!?!?!?!?" Like huh who would've thought!? You think me getting my pussy cut open would give them a hint. Idk just another annoying thing I'll have to put up with for the rest of my life. At least it's not a kid 😎

Posted Nov 11, 2024, 4:34 PM UTC

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