Husband treating me horribly during pregnancy

My title pretty much sums it all up. I’m currently pregnant. We did fertility treatments to conceive so this was very much planned. All my pregnant friend’s around me have such a great partner and then there’s mine.

I’ve had your typical, horrible first trimester. The nausea, vomiting, fatigue and food issues. I was the 10/10 wife prior. House was always spotless with laundry completed. Dinner ready @ 5. Now, I’m the opposite of that because … I’m pregnant.

He’s constantly putting me down about everything. He’s mad about the house or no dinner. He’s lecturing me on every. single. thing. He’s telling me how he hopes this isn’t a thing after pregnancy because he will not accept it. I’ve tried to explain that this happens. I’ve asked him to try to understand because this isn’t my normal. I just wish I had his support. I wish he would help me or at least comfort me. I hate seeing my house unkept too or laundry piling up. I hate not being able to cook our favorite meals. I just physically and mentally can’t until I’m out of this trimester or whenever these symptoms clear.

Now, we have the gender email from my doctor’s office and he’s refusing to want to look at it. Of course, I don’t want to find out alone and under these circumstances. I feel like he’s ruining all the happiness in this pregnancy for me.