How has intimacy with your wife/girlfriend changed post procedure? Is she more into sexy time?

Hey fellas. I was reading the studies and saw that female partners had an improvement in libido, natural lubrication and other positive stuff.

I was curious how not just your sex life changed but intimacy. Feeling close, connected, safe. That sorta thing. And not you but her experience in general.

And I’m asking for y’all to connect to your sensitivity here. So let’s skip the cream pie references.

I’ll start it off by adding I had a moment of introspection where I realized I don’t have the capacity to fully understand what it’s like to be in my wife’s body because the biological burden to grow a child and raise it is pretty much all hers. So of course she has a never ending voice of anxiety going “if you get pregnant it’s gonna traumatic to deal with it”. She has expressed that this never goes away during love making.

We have a kid and we are definitely all done making more.

We are both very thankful for our sex life and connection which has grown so strong and heart filling the past few years with couples counseling.

So was your wife like mine? How did she change? How did you change?