Can't change rate in xrandr. monitor disconnects

Arch i3wm. graphic card - 3060ti

here is xrandr output

HDMI-1 connected 1920x1080+0+0 (normal left inverted right x axis y axis) 600mm x 340mm

1920x1080 60.00*+ 165.00 144.00 119.88 100.00 59.94 50.00 29.97 25.00 23.98

3840x2160 59.94 50.00

1680x1050 59.95

1600x900 60.00

1280x1024 119.96 75.02 60.02

1280x800 59.81

1280x720 60.00 59.94 50.00

1024x768 119.99 75.03 60.00

800x600 75.00 60.32

720x576 50.00

720x480 59.94

640x480 75.00 59.94 59.93