Male "friend" who treats my attractive female friend better
Just a random rant because I have no real friends to spill tea to but I find it annoying when this kind of thing happens.
This guy is unattractive too, mind you. But I'll say something or the other, and he'll roll his eyes at me or completely ignore my feelings and keep bragging away about how great he thinks he is despite the fact that I'm giving major hints that he should stop because it's making me feel bad.
But when it comes to our attractive friend, he reveres her almost. It's always "do you want to talk about it?" "yeah that really sucks! We all hate that don't we?", etc. when it comes to her. He's so meek and respectful towards her, and so blatant and almost sort of rude to me? Like I remember, she literally went on and on about how every guy falls for her because of how charming she is (I thought she was just normal tbh), but not once did he roll his eyes at her. He just sympathized with her. But I'll say something much less annoying and not braggy at all, and I'll get eye-rolls and weird comments twisting my actions into something else?? Tf?? Like, okay, maybe I'm annoying. But am I really that much more annoying than her? Or anyone else for that matter? Or is this just another case of men not being as forgiving of women they're not attracted to? She gets his respectful side, while I get to be the person who listens to his random rants and thoughts about all kinds of topics, but I'm still not enough to him just because of the way I look.
And you want to know the funniest thing? She told me that he asked her out and that she thinks she's out of his league and how could he even think they're remotely on the same level 💀 Like good job bro, you're sucking up to a woman who thinks you're not even worthy of liking her, whereas I'd never thought badly of him up until recently. But whatever, it's what he deserves at this point.
Posted Dec 2, 2024, 6:00 AM UTC