Husband admits to “falling asleep” while having sex?

🥸 Back Story:

Apparently the first time this happened we had been just dating and he had come over to my house. We had gone over to a nearby brunch spot and we drank mimosas until we got cut off. He’s significantly bigger than me and has a habit of drinking more than the average joe (which is fine because he behaves himself and is usually having a good time doing so). So we proceed to go back to my place where we enjoy some more drinks and things get a little friskyyyyy.

However, my lovely man falls asleep before either of us finish (again… this has happened before). So here I was, a horny woman, with a man in her bed with a rock hard dick 😔. In the time that we had been dating, this was the first time I said “f it, I’m gonna finish “. I leave him with the keys to my place and I take off to work.

Later on, I check on him and admit to what I did 😭. To which he replies that he didn’t mind and joked about how “maybe he liked that I did that”.

Fast forward a year and a half later, we’re now married and I’m heavily pregnant 🤰. We love each other very much but occasionally his drinking gets out of hand and I’m left with an unconscious man during sex and it upsets me because I have to stop everything I’m doing and go to bed. It pisses me off that he does this and we’ve discussed his drinking habits semi-peacefully lol.

Lately however, my sex drive has been through the roof so while I wait for him to wake up, I’ll check to see if he has morning wood and I like to gently awaken him up to either some head or a sloppy hand job. BUT, he was taking longer and longer to wake up. So much that I thought he didn’t want to or didn’t like to have sex with me anymore and I confronted him about it last night.

To my surprise, he admitted to not actually being asleep. That the first time I fucked him while he was “passed out drunk “, he wasn’t actually drunk and he really liked what happened. It was really hard to wrap my head around it but he admitted to liking that I try to fuck him while he sleeps.

🤨 Men or those with similar kinks…Help me understand what is going through his head.

Oh, and that first time it happened he apparently waited for me to go to work and basically made himself at home until he sobered up. And wasn’t actually sleeping like he initially led me to believe. He mentioned liking the idea of me wanting him so much that I was willing to fuck him in his sleep.