femme friends?

pls help, am desperate: where does a femme find femme friends? i have lesbian friends & a partner who i love but they like sports and don't wear makeup. i am a HARD FEMME, i want to join a WALKNG CLUB, i want to go to GLOSSIER POP UPS, i want to LEARN MAKE UP TIPS and TRADE CROP TOPS. i am losing my girly straight friends left & right to their new terrible boyfriends & i know there are other makeup-loving femmes out there who would probably appreciate my friendship but where are you?? how did you meet your femme friends??