My ex 29F asked to see me 31M and then lost it on me.

So messy stuff aside. My ex broke up with me a year ago. During and after the relationship there were a lot of lies from her, she chose other men over me, friends, and would ghost me for weeks to avoid accountability.

A few times throughout the year we would see each other or communicate. She would tell me how much she loved me and missed me. It would get me back on the hook, I would trust her words and then I would find out about something that violated my trust again.

Anyways the circle started again. This time she has communicated to me that she wants things to be different, she's changed, sorry, etc.

So we started seeing each the last few weeks. I have a new place and I invited her to come over. She denied the invitation because she was too busy. Yesterday she asked me if the invitation was still open, even though I asked 2 weeks ago.

I replied saying that it still was but I just had one stipulation if she was to come over. That she had no bad intentions. And the thought behind it was that I wanted her to be honest with me about her life and what she was doing with me.

Anyways she lost it on this. She got angry and said that it's not fair and wrong for me to say something like this, to bring up her past mistakes. That I'm unforgiving. And she was opening her heart to come to my place but it is off the table now because I violated her.

I tried to explain everything to her but everything went worse. She yelled at me telling me to never call her again, to delete her number, to never see her again. That I'm a cruel person. That she truly was sincere and I took it all for granted.

She went on to then tell me that I'm so right about all my past feelings, that she's an evil woman, who just lies, and cheats, and takes advantage of others. She screamed and hung up on me.

Was that the right thing to say to her or is there a better approach to this situation?

Tldr: ex has history of lying and cheating, we somewhat rekindled things, I asked her to see me and to have no bad intentions. She took it wrongly and blew up.