Online-Only Dynamic Agreements Advice

First off, I am an experienced sub with the off-screen/real life scene but due to so many reasons, I am just not in the place to go back into it right now.

I have been going to a spicy chatroom to get my submissive scratch itched and in that, I have found myself starting to get into a more-than-play partnership with a Domme there. We are both aware of this growing and have agreed to reflect and then have a discussion on what we want and don't want this to look like.

She has been consistent and shown she has the real life knowledge of being a Domme.

Here is the main thing we are going to discuss... I struggle with major ADHD and anxiety. I have found over the years that having someone set a routine, set tasks and/or be present (body-double) while I am achieving them works wonders for me. Maybe in a few years or so I can get a handle on this on my own but for where I am right now, having a dominant set this helps me. I had one before and it helped so much but we had to end it due to life stuff getting in the way.

For anyone else who has/had a dynamic like this setup before, what major things shoulder her and I address?

We will still have sexy role play rime in addition to these tasks being set up but I'd love to get an idea on how others have handled this if they've been in an online-only dynamic.