Society sets moms up to fail

I feel like no matter what we are going to feel like failures.

We get told to work on ourselves, self care and to be kind to ourselves but are told wow you let yourself go...and to make time to work on you..like sure let me just pull time out of my ass.

You work outside the home, you are letting other people raise your child and missing out on those young years. But also you stay at home and you are lucky to not "work". Sure, because being overstimulated and trying to complete household task all day long while taking care of young kids is real treat. Either way you are screwed and are expected to be the default parent and household manger.

Lower your expectations of how clean your house will be but also don't be a lazy piece of shit. Oh and don't clean all day because you need make time to spend with your children and play with them. Also make sure your look good for husband so you can the passion alive..even though taking a shower is treat!

Rant over