Accepting fate and being forever alone

Vent

I'm just unable to get girls and I will never get them ever. My fate is sealed, there's nothing that can be done to change it, "there's nothing we can do", as the famous French General Napoleon Bonaparte once said (I sure do feel like Napoleon, standing on St Helena near the end of his life, reminiscing about how he was once the most powerful man in the entire world and how he suddenly lost all that power and glory).

I really really want to accept my fate. I want to be happy single. I want to be happy without a girl. I want to be grateful and happy for what I have instead of being sad over what I can't ever have (i.e girls and sex). I keep praying to God to help me stay single and celibate for my entire life happily and help me stop craving a girl. I want to be happy alone and I know I should be, because as everyone says relationships aren't really good as they seem and all that.

But despite all that desire to be single, I still crave the company of a beautiful girl. Being in university seeing endless attractive girls all my age is making me go insane. I want to stop caring about them, I want to be grateful to God for what I have and not be sad over what I won't ever have and be happy and content with my life knowing I will never have any of these girls I want.

Posted Feb 20, 2025, 11:37 AM UTC

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