Do you need emotional consistency for kink play?

A few weeks ago I found a guy on Feeld and we clicked right away. He was a switch and since I am a switch as well I really found the bond in our conversation. We talked for 12 hours in our first encounter on the app. He was so good at sexting and edging... I was horny for him before our first date. I usually don't get all touchy touchy in the first date but with him it was just easy... things worked out on their own to the extent where I went to the restroom in our first date, took my panties off and put them in his hands right in the cafe to show him how hot I was for him. We did fuck in our second and third dates. He told me he wanted a FWB although I already felt more I guess. In both the times we fucked, he couldn't get it up though. First time he came fast and second time he was not hard enough to fuck me the way he wanted which to tell the truth was not thar important to me. Our kink play was so fun for me thar cumming or being able to fuck for hours didn't matter to me at all. I even enjoyed kissing him only. Anyways, after the second time he told me he had lost his confidence in his manhood and literally stopped with sexting completely and started friend zoning me and when I asked for clarification he panicked I guess. And asked me for a two week break to find our way back to friendship! And he vanished after 2 weeks. No message. Nothing... I am left with all these feelings I hadn't felt for years... and poof! Nothing! It is as if it has not even happened and whoever I am trying to just go on a date with feels boring... distant... I don't know what to do... :(