When is it time to move on? [Me 24F, Them, 24M]

Context: It's been a few years in the making. 3.5 years. We are at very different chapters of adulthood, personal growth, trauma healing, outlooks on life, etc. At what point have I provided enough time and grace? At what point does a relationship no longer serve me?

Growth I Need to See Take Place • Gentleness (much less yelling, anger, defensiveness, making assumptions, not asking for clarification) • Joy (joy for life, prioritizing the little things, active conscious choices on how he responds to things, joy as a form of resistance) • Unity (treating our relationship, himself and shared responsibilities as part of a whole in his decisions, planning considerations, and household participation) • Not 'Beating the Dead Horse' (not all conversations need to be a debate or have a winner, and not all interworkings of an incorrect interpretation need to be dissected and discussed. priority should be on connection and how these things are wrapped up/ended)