Is this normal husband behavior? Feeling so disrespected 😭

Is this normal husband behavior?? Feeling so disrespected and hurt.

Long story short I became a SAHM after having our twins who are 1.5yrs old… husband works full time. So recently our 12 yr olds daughter’s competitive soccer practices started back up (which are conveniently very close to our home and a team which we know all the kids etc this will make sense later.) husband has been coming home from work to take her to practice which lasts about 2.5 hours twice a week.. husband was staying the entire time at every practice.. I didn’t think much of it as I assumed other parents were staying to watch as well.. so come to find out it’s just him and another dad that stay to watch (the other dad/child live an hour away) every single other parent drops their kid off.. Here is my issue- I have expressed to my husband how mentally, physically, and emotionally exhausted that I am SO many times. We have little to no help so it’s me taking care of them 24/7. I do EVERY single bit of housework and even when he’s here I’m primarily the caretaker. I have to remind/ask him to do simple daily living tasks for the twins. I just cannot shake this resentment. He knew what he was doing by staying at the practices and willingly did it. I have only been away from the twins once in almost 2 years. But he has been on multiple hunting trips for the whole weekend. He goes out for lunch multiple times a week with his coworkers etc. I just feel so disrespected. We’ve been married 11 years for reference.

If you made it this far I appreciate you reading.

Posted Feb 21, 2025, 7:04 PM UTC

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