Am I wrong?

I just want to know if I’m wrong.

My husband works as a self employed, and on the weekends he always works extra, up to 12 hours shift.

When he left the house yesterday, he knew that I was feeling so bad (I’m going through depression) and despite this he didn’t make any calls, messages for the whole day, not even asking how am I doing, or what did I have for dinner.

We have been married for 4 years now, he is so kind and lovely and always trying to make me happy.

But it hurts me sooo bad when he doesn’t ask about me even though he knows that I’m feeling bad, when I told him this he told me, what do you expect me do to, to leave my job and come to you, (we are living 1 hour away from his workplace), I told him no I didn’t ask you to do that, but you need to be ashamed that I’m asking you for attention when you have to give it without asking.