Am I wrong?

I just want to know if I’m wrong.

My husband works as a self employed, and on the weekends he always works extra, up to 12 hours shift.

When he left the house yesterday, he knew that I was feeling so bad (I’m going through depression) and despite this he didn’t make any calls, messages for the whole day, not even asking how am I doing, or what did I have for dinner.

We have been married for 4 years now, he is so kind and lovely and always trying to make me happy.

But it hurts me sooo bad when he doesn’t ask about me even though he knows that I’m feeling bad, when I told him this, he told me, what do you expect me do to, to leave my job and come to you, (we are living 1 hour away from his workplace), I told him no I didn’t ask you to do that, but you need to be ashamed that I’m asking you for attention when you have to give it without asking.

Also, I sent him a message before he comes home saying “please don’t talk to me when you arrive” and I slept, when I woke up in the morning he was already home and asked me kindly why you don’t wanna talk to me, what’s wrong, and when I told him the reason he became kinda angry, and said, you are always feeling bad and depressed what do you want me to do, I told him please do not talk to me, then he slammed the door and went to work again.

Now I’m feeling even more worse💔