I want to have a free use family with someone

For context I'm am a 20 year old male in the uk Gloucestershire area and woukd love to have free use family with a women who has similar ideals and fantasies but I can't find any, or if I do their account gets deleted a few days after talking it's frustrating if there are any women on this sub who actually think of this and want the same as me I'd like to know