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maryakay47

Searching nude women on his safari

NSFWTW: TRIGGERING CONTENT

(Some background context, last year he had tried to show me something on his phone, but when he pulled up the internet app, a porn site had loaded. I had then asked him if he would stop watching porn. I am very self conscious about myself and based on previous relationship experiences with it, l would rather him not. That's not to say further down the line it wouldn't change, but as of right now it does damage my self image.)

(TW: Domestic Abuse) I had went through his phone the other night and found he was searching up specific women nude. Women who look nothing like me. I had woke him up and confronted him which wasn't a good idea. It ended up getting physical and I only bring that up because I have deep purple bruises on my shoulders, arms, and hips and a popped blood vessel in my eye. So now I not only genuinely look worse, but I feel completely ugly. We never ended up talking out the things that bother me, so it has been swept under the rug for two days. He called me on his lunch today and as we were talking he said I sounded "down" and kept prying on what was wrong. I told him "He probably has a good idea" and then he went silent. Nothing else was said so we said goodbye and ended the call. I have sent him texts about why it hurts me, and a few other things with no response. I'm pretty sure I know most of the responses this will get. I just feel so broken down. He is my best friend.

Posted Feb 24, 2025, 9:31 PM UTC

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