How to find a service for my crossdressing fetish

I am a straight man who likes to dress up with feminine clothes and has a special interest in stockings/pantyhoses. I find totally feminine characters(women, trans) sexually attractive.

I browsed through internet but could not find a term/definition for the fantasy I am looking for. I am not very familiar with fetish glossary though.

What I am looking for is:

A sexual act/fantasy between a man and a woman such that the woman makes the man wears feminine sexy clothes. Dresses, skirts, stockings, high heels, wigs, make up could be put on the man. Basically, the woman "dolls him up". The fetish is done like a ceremony, slow, step by step, as if she is preparing him like a bride for a wedding.

Do not consider this as sissification/feminization because this act does not involve BDSM parameters such as training, dominance, forcing, humiliation, bondage, chasity. Instead, the woman sees the man someone to worship(not in an extreme way) and she sees him sexier and more attractive when he is in feminine clothes. And the fantasy is done with gentle and elegant manners.

Sexual intercourse, entry level SM acts like handcuffs, eye patces, etc., anal activities like rimming, prostate massage could be or not be within the fantasy

One can say that this is crossdressing, which is not wrong but if there is a more specific term for I described, I want to get this as a service and I do not know how to and who to communicate with, give me some advice