i found porn in my bfs reddit search bar

ive never made a reddit post so excuse me if i sound dumb.

I’m F(15), and my boyfriend is M(16). We’ve been in a relationship for almost three years—we met in 2022. You know, as teens, you get curious. We’ve done a couple of things, but we’ve never actually had sex.

Well, today, he gave me his phone to charge, and I’m really curious and have huge trust issues, so I looked at his open tabs to see what apps he’d been using. I saw that Reddit was open. Mind you, I use Reddit, but only when I need a question answered. 😭 I think people are more honest here, so I thought maybe he was just looking up random things. But then I saw three things in his search bar “cheatingwives,” “brazilianplayboy,” and “brazilianpanties.” I was shooked, I never thought he would be the type to watch porn like that.

I looked at the recent posts from those searches, and it’s goofy shit. I don’t have a problem with old people, but he’s watching old ladies who aren’t fulfilled with their husbands show off their boobs and pussies. Then, I checked his history to see more stuff (of course, I wanted to see everything), and I saw a couple videos of videos of girls using dildos. and a shit ton of other stuff. I think it’s hilarious that he’s watching that. I don’t like knowing he is, but it’s funny that he feels the need to goon over some girls who don’t even know he exists. im not hurt by the way just amused.

I’ve watched porn in our relationship before, but I don’t really do it now. Well, I want to know what to do. I know he’s a teenager, and he’s going to have desires, but I want to troll him a little. I know he wouldn’t want me knowing, but I don’t really know what to do. It bothers me, but at the same time, I don’t know. I want to bring it up in a really indirect way to see how he reacts to it.

I would love some ideas on what to do or say—anything, tbh.

Posted Mar 7, 2025, 9:46 PM UTC

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