Military

Is anyone a military spouse? I am a C5 so I would need a caregiver when he’s gone if I were to move in. He told me he’s nervous about that cause he could be called in at any time and he doesn’t want me to be left alone and not be able to get the caregiver. Does anyone have any experience like this? I feel like I’m literally the only one and a very new quad and he’s also very new to the military. Also another question on their insurance what are some really good benefits for us?