What were this guys intentions?!

So I met this guy on seeking , he was very good looking and he texted me. After a few nice messages we switched to WhatsApp and exchanged voice notes. He also send me a lot pictures from his life and his horse , dogs on the horse compound etc. I feel like it was definitely the attractive guy.

So after like having a good base of texting down, I asked him what kind of arrangements he was looking for, he said something serious. I shared that I was looking for pay per meet arrangements at the beginning and would love for it to develop into a monthly thing.

He said that he is new on the site and that he did not know the lingo and he asked me to explain. So I send him a link to a site where ppm as well as other sugardating lingo was explained.

He then just stops texting and the profile picture on WhatsApp disappears. Later he writes me on seeking that he is looking for something different.

I feel like this guy wanted someone to text with between business calls. He was also sharing s lot about his life in voice messages including his breakfast and workout routine. It felt like he was wanting to hear himself speak and had no intention to arrange an in person meeting as soon as possible. He was attractive but cmon, I'm on seeking for a reason, to find a mutually beneficial arrangement.

So I wonder what this guys intentions were. I feel like sugar dating sites and seeking is full of guys that just want to date and have sex without spoiling/ gifting/supporting.

Like paying for coffee and dinner is already enough. I feel like my time has been wasted.

And then there are the traveling business men that think a small amount is enough sugar for a late night hotel visit, as if Sugar baby's were low end escorts, like wtf ?!

Am I the only one having these weird experiences? What happened to sugar dating !?

I'm looking forward to your feedback and thoughts, Thank you for reading 💗

Kind regards, Lucky