2018 Lexus rx350 with 86k miles or 2022 Honda passport elite with 35k miles?

While older, the Lexus feels more premium and has more features. I will have to pay another $1400 to get CarPlay and a remote start added to the Lexus. The passport already comes with all the features I want except for auto breakhold for red lights. My hesitation is the much older year and the higher mileage.