Silent sends or very little communication.

I was wondering if silent sends or a message from me here and there is consider findom? Or is it some other type of kink?

I am into findom, mostly a domme, a switch for the right person/send but most of my $$ tributes and gifts are from people who are closeted subs perhaps? They are shy, quiet and gentle. They actually have never had a real time session with me. These guys are from the gaming community so that’s where they know me from. Never had anyone reach out to me regarding findom specifically; I guess I’m just trying to label my experience so far. Some enlightenment please?