Is it possible to find subs that are strictly vanilla?

I’m a 20 year old college student studying communication, and I have learned A LOT about communication in relationships. I LOVE being able to talk maturely and work through conflict, having the ability to fully understand the context of the message. I just really enjoy good conversation and having it continue rather than just die out. I feel that I have learned how to communicate effectively with basically anyone just because I allow people to be comfortable. I am a very straightforward person and people like that honesty, especially if I’m still basically a stranger to them.

A couple of years ago when I started findom I would send nudes and was the bratty kind of dom. Now, I really only just want a sub to have conversations with. I feel like that is something that people are not interested in so that’s why I’m posting here. I’m open to sending cute pictures of me wearing clothes that they buy or something, OOTD maybe. Overall, I just want to know if any of you have experience with this. I haven’t had this experience with anyone yet but would love to just have someone to chat with while getting paid for it. I just am really not interested in the aggressive dom aesthetic and completely respect anyone who is!! I just don’t want to feel like I HAVE to be that way for subs.

But yeah, I’d love to know your experiences with this kind of relationship. My DMs are always open if anyone wants to chat💕