Should I go for this woman?

I have been on dates with many different women and almost always I feel no chemistry. The dates aren’t bad but I dont feel any magic.

I recently matched with a girl on Bumble a few months ago. We met and she has been very nice to me. But most importantly I feel some sort of positive energy when I’m with her. She’s beautiful, educated, caring and works hard. It’s very rare for me to be able to be relaxed and myself with a woman. A lot of times you have to pretend to be someone you’re not and with her I can be fully myself.

But maybe it’s my commitment issues or maybe these are genuine concerns. I’m still unsure if I want to pursue something serious. I want to have kids and so does she. She is 35 however (and I’m not too far behind). She smokes a lot of weed. 3-4 joints almost every day. When I’m with her I smoke up as well but I don’t have to rely on it. I asked her if she can quit and she said once she decides to have a baby she will. Or if she quits she will quit for good. She knows I’m unsure about something long term and hasn’t put any pressure on me. She did say if I ever decide to see someone else, to let her know before I do so she too can look for serious suitors. And until I leave (as I’m travelling through India but have been in her city for 2 months) she will give me her time and attention and will look for marriage once I leave.

I’m a bit confused. On one hand I haven’t felt that comfort feeling with a woman like I do now in a very very long time. She has very good vibrations- if I touch her instantly all my anxiety and cluttered thoughts get calmed. She likes me a lot. We have good chemistry. On the other hand - the things I mentioned above. She’s only had 3bfs in the past and won’t have sex unless she is committed- which made me respect her. We have made out a lot though.

Thoughts?