Jiang Cheng's Parental Abuse

Random thought I just had, but aren't JC's parents abusive in the sense that they do what most abusive ppl do, which is isolation. I don't mean like physical isolation. I mean emotional isolation where they both contributed to creating an environment where JC feels like he can't show his emotions or connect with ppl on an emotional level. Like Madame Yu with her rage and trying to make him the best of the best and JFM with his general, i dont care about you atitude. Is that a thing, or am I just crazy?