things have changed

So I’m 28m and my partner recently moved out of state because our plan is to be closer to her family while I stay and work and take care of a few things before I go too. I’ve visited a few times and all seems kinda off. She also started a instagram apparently for influence in her projects, which I’m not aware of what they are really lol I’m not someone who uses social media so I’m hoping maybe someone could help me out with following and seeing what it’s actually about? Everytime I ask it gets diverted or the follower and post counts change before a screen shot. Just want to know if I’m wasting my time and money.