am i too forward?

hello! just got broken up with (24F). need to get back in the game soon. however, i had a very unconventional life with my boyfriend of 5 years.

i just got sterilized because i don’t want kids. if we start dating i don’t want to take anything serious unless you’re already 100% sure that’s not a problem for you. i would like my next whatever to be someone with similar kinks as me. i’m also bisexual, and was swinging with my ex, and would like to continue that with my next partner and other people as a group.

how the hell do i introduce any of that when meeting new people, apps or otherwise? those are all very intense decisions for someone of my age group. TIA.