Wtf do I do about my hair?

I’ve been a guy for 4 years and I got a short haircut soon after I came out that I hated, grew it out, got a less short haircut, hated that too, and I’m back to the long straight hair I’ve had my whole life. I like having long hair but it obviously makes passing difficult especially since I’m not on testosterone. Does anyone have long but masculine hairstyle ideas for straight hair?