My (19F) boyfriend (24M) told me he watches porn sometimes.
My boyfriend has had a pretty rough life, and was exposed to porn from a very very young age because of his father.
He has been going through a very hard time recently, and he basically crashes out a lot because of the insane amount of stress.
When this happens, he leaves for some space for some hours and i never understood why. He told me today is that he watches porn when he leaves for space, and he (you know) to it.
He said that when he's at his lowest, porn is the only source of "dopamine" he can get.He feels really bad about it and feels too guilty to talk to me at the moment. I love him so much, and i don't blame him.
I've never watched porn and he knows this. I don't know what to do. I don't know if this is considered cheating or not. What can we do to make him stop watching it?
Posted Mar 12, 2025, 7:57 PM UTC