Stop expecting instant replies.
When did people feel so full of ego, that they expect you to reply to them within 12hours. When you've literally just started talking to them.
ESPECIALLY when I've put it on my previous posts (now deleted, due to amount of message requests)
'Paitences would be key. If you struggle with infrequent conversations etc. I'm not ya gal. '
We don't owe eachother instant or quick replies. Majority of us are working adults, with families, hobbies, a whole life outside of reddit.
Stop expecting strangers on the internet to be at your call.
It's odd, and that's coming from a Autistic woman. So ya know...
Be grateful that you are getting to connect with people. That individuals are giving you their time (which my goodness is precious to us all) to get to know you, to hopefully develop somthing lovely.
Chill. Seriously. It's selfish.
Fyi, most people get messages by multiple people after a post. Unless you're David Attenborough, we are going to give the same amount of time to the other messages.
Okay. Rant over.
Posted Mar 12, 2025, 7:57 PM UTC