I F/20 and my bf M/22 have been seeing each other for a few years. Sine I started school my relationship seems to be suffering. Is it normal for that to happen and is there a way to save my relationship?

hello, I will change some of the personal details for obvious reasons

I F/20 and my bf M/22 have been together going in 3 years. last fall I moved away for school. Since then I feel my relationship has been slowly falling apart. I have tried talking to him about everything I am going to write.

So, I have asked him to be more communicative and he said he would but never does. I bring up his unfulfilled promises and he gets pissy that he is trying which no he isn't. His excuse for not talking is that he doesnt like talking over the phone which is our only form of contact. I have asked what he thinks we should do and he wants to wait until the weekends which I sometimes have time to go home for. The times I can go home he gets grumpy that I cant spend 100% of my time with him and wont join anything I am doing with my family or friends because "he just wants to spend time with me". What is really making me write this was that he knowingly missed my mothers anniversary of her death and when I brought that up it was a "I didn't know you wanted me there" which is bs as I told him weeks in advance and then earlier that week and the day before. He is able to make it up once a week which I am ok with seeing how gas is however he knowingly coming up on the days when I mainly have test on or the day after. I have asked him to pick a different day but he wont. no reason why just dont want to. I brought up all my issues with friends and family and they give me mixed reactions so I dont know where to go from here. Its gotten to the point that I feel as if he's lost interest in me. There is always this pit in my stomach whenever I see or hear him.

what do I do.