"My mentor elucidated this to me once, yet I continue to peruse it each night."

Or suun kaafi dhyaan se or isse smjhiye dhyaan se Seedhi baat tu relationship m nhi h tu abhi ek mind set m hai ki tujhe kisi ki jarurat hai!!

Kuki you have so many things or uss time p ek bnde ne terko woh dikh gya and ab kuki woh terko boht detail m jaan gya h toh tu usse chhodna ni chahti ya pata nhi kya jo bhi h toh you defend ki uski galti thodi h kuch mere karan sab kharab ho rha h toh I can't leave him ya I can't stand for myself against him.

Parso tak teri baato se lag rha tha ki woh boht sahi hai or teri wjh se sab kharab hai.

Ab dheere dheere pata lag rha hai actual m tujhe uss myth mei jiyaya has rha hai ki yh sab normal hai jo tere sath ho rha hai. Or terko yeh bhi realise kraya jaa rha hai ki yh tere liye hi toh hai or tujhe psnd bhi hona chahiye yeh.

Teri dikkat pata h kya h advance dikhne or banne k chkkr m tu woh sab kr rhi h jo terko lagwaya jata h ki aise hi hota h normally ya aise hi hota h bond strong. Or tu khud ka dimaag as an individual band krke Bethi h

Kabhi apne asps hi thode nerd se or padhne wale couples dekhe hai? Woh toh nahi krte honge yh harkate bilkul bhi.

Or jab bhi koi jada tezz ya lafandar type ladka ladki ko koi seedha mil jata h dimaag se toh woh fir usse apne hisaab se chla hi lete h or generally woh seedha banda ya bandi barbaad hi hote hai na apni zindgi ke targets poore kr paate kuki waha se toh dhyaan hatwa hi diya tha yh sb banda bandi or chaka chaundh ne or yh relationship wali chize chlti hi saamne wale ke matlab tak hai.

Apni individuality or apni roots m positive influence laa. Sab dheere dheere thik ho jayega.

Woh dono tune khud crush kr rkhi h external pressures mei. Duniya tb tk saggi hai jab tk tum kuch faida de rhe ho. Humesha sath bas 2 chize rhti hai apni individuality and humari roots (ethics, morals, family etc)