Short texting when upset??

Ok SO. I’m not sure if I’m being completely over dramatic here and want to get some outside opinions. So, my partner doesn’t get mad with me often, but if she does, she’ll send short messages and has been like that the past few days. Then didn’t want to be close to me when we were together. I completely get being upset and maybe not wanting closeness as much, but short texting just really triggers me 😭 it definitely does feel like a punishment (and was used as one previously. I guess I feel like we should not be texting at all if you feel you need to be short and not caring in replies. I mentioned for me I woudl prefer to communicate if you are upset and might not be as active texting. But idk…..should I be more understanding about short texting???