Boyfriend’s INSANE insecurity

My boyfriend is insecure about his male part not being cut, as that’s the norm in the US and he used to get bullied about it. My family comes from a country where it’s not even practiced, and I love him regardless.

I was trying to encourage him, saying anyone who made fun of him is just insecure, not to let it get to him, and that I think he’s absolutely perfect the way he is.

And he has the audacity to say, that someone like me, it would be much better if I had a preference to his thing being like that instead of “accepting” it.

That kind of gave me the ick. I told him if he was short, tall, doesn’t matter, I love him for who he is, that included. Acceptance… I had to explain that I don’t have a fetish for that certain trait because I’m not some expert???

I literally couldn’t care less, and I love him for who he is, but this made my stomach turn. The fact that he said if someone like me had a preference towards it, it would be better. All this love, effort, and work I put towards trying to uplift him and encourage him for what???

I’m not sure what he wants from me, but if that’s what he wants, I hope he finds his girl or someone like me who has a specific fetish for that 😔