Sub/switch masc

How many of us actually exist? I feel like it’s sort of expected for the masc to be dominant but that’s just not me. While I absolutely very much enjoy returning the favors, I just don’t have a dominant bone in my body. And I love being the little spoon and all that good stuff. I’m also shorter than average (25 yrs old and 4’11).

If you relate to this in any way, how has it affected your sex life?

When I was femme presenting, I attracted the femme dom type which is what I like and they thought it was “cute” that I was smaller. I haven’t perused a parter since cutting my hair and changing my wardrobe and I’m kinda scared to do so