I don't feel/look like SB material

Seeking Advice

Hi and thank you in advance for reading my post <3

I am 23F and am considering the sb lifestyle because I want something casual, flirty, and even romantic without it become a ltr. I feel like I could be a good sb in that aspect of providing attention and affection. I'm great at keeping conversations going.

So, the issue is that I think I don't look like a typical SB after skimming the posts asking for profile help. Unfortunately, all my friends have told me that I'm most likely to attract men with yellow fever. I look like the unassuming asian girl who would more likely be at a library than a club. I also don't even have swimsuit photos of myself. And then I kind of want to hide my face in my photos if I were to make an account on Seeking, while still showing my body ofc, because I'm nervous about the whole privacy/stalking thing.

Also, I have this idea that the sb lifestyle is something lavish and going on fine dining dates and I am nothing like that. Would that be an issue?

I've been doing some skimming and reading posts in the subreddit but I'm just curious about these specifics. And if there are any sb content creators that paint a realistic picture of what it's like, I'd love to watch to learn more before diving into the bowl lol. Also, if you're a seasoned sb willing to take on an apprentice, then I'd love to chat.

Posted Mar 14, 2025, 7:54 PM UTC

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