I know it’s very easy to fall in a rabbit hole of judgement, especially when it’s on a topic that the people intentionally misconstrue and do harm other individuals in. 

But there is a way to call out faking behavior -

(Endogenic, Willogenic, mixed origin, etc.), abuse of closed cultures (people claiming to be tulpamancers), and behavior that is toxic to community (faking typing quirks, over dramatization of how symptoms appear, and boiling down a CDD to the “alter disorder”) 

-without being harmful. 

Being upset about the abuses and harm people do the a mentally vulnerable community is 100% valid and should be spoken out on. 

But boiling down to just insulting people to insult them outside of the actual harmful behavior being done is beneath this community who I do genuinely believe put energy in sharing genuine concerns and disputing poor behaviors by people attempting to get “online street cred” for faking a severely debilitating disorder. 

Lately I have seen more comments in the fashion of just plain lashing out (example someone only commenting to insult someone’s appearance) and it doesn’t seem in line with how the community actually holds itself, so I am hoping that maybe a friendly reminder and encouragement to continue to be the bigger and better people-despite everyone here being rightfully angered by poor behaviors of others-will be found kindly. ♥️

Friendly reminder for us all sometimes