
FALSE COMPASSION, FALSE DIPLOMACY, FALSE MAGNANIMITY - -

„Love in the mode of ignorance.

It is amazing how in our softer Age, people imagine spirituality produces only a soft, weak, emasculated love.  
Amma said love makes you soft as a flower and hard as a diamond.  
God's love is a fire, a crucible, stern, austere, implacable.  

It is not sentimental and sugary.  
When I point out folly, people immediately assume I cannot be spiritual.  
They are so inauthentic - mask of niceness.
If you judge others, you will bind yourself to these very judgments. 
If you define others, you limit yourself, UNLESS you are able to live above the mind - enlightenment of the mind/mindfulness - the Witness Position. 
Defining others colours our own aura first. Lasting peace alone makes us fit to judge true values.

Masters slay the ego.  
They do not indulge in false diplomacy, false compassion, false magnanimity, which pities/serves the ego, but kills the soul - this is violence against the real.  Love in the mode of ignorance.  
This is not real compassion - inverted compassion.“


BLIND COMPASSION

„Blind compassion is rooted in the belief that we are all doing the best we can. 
When we are driven by blind compassion, we cut everyone far too much slack, making excuses for others' behavior and making nice situations that require a forceful "no", an unmistakable voicing of displeasure, or a firm setting and maintaining of boundaries. 
These things can, and often should be done out of love, but blind compassion keeps love too meek, sentenced to wearing a kind face. Blind compassion is kindness rooted in fear, and not just fear of confrontation, but also fear of not coming across as a good or spiritual person.

When we are engaged in blind compassion we rarely show anger, for we not only believe that compassion has to be gentle, we are also frightened of upsetting anyone, especially to the point of their confronting us. 

This is reinforced by our judgment about anger, especially in its more fiery forms, as something less spiritual; something that shouldn't be there if we were being truly loving. 
Blind compassion reduces us to harmony junkies, entrapping us in unrelentingly positive expression.

With blind compassion we don't know how to - or won't learn how to - say "no" with any real power, avoiding confrontation at all costs and, as a result, enabling unhealthy patterns to continue. 

Our "yes" is then anemic and impotent, devoid of impact it could have if we were also able to access a clear, strong "no" that emanated from our core.

When we mute our essential voice, our openness is reduced to a permissive gap, an undiscerning embrace, a poorly boundaries receptivity, all of which indicate a lack of compassion for ourselves (in that we don't adequately protect ourselves). 

Blind compassion confuses anger with aggression, forcefulness with violence, judgment with condemnation, caring with exaggerated tolerance, and more tolerance with spiritual correctness."

~ Joya

False Compassion,False Diplomacy, False Magnanimity /Blind Compassion (read the description)