Confess to my gf i'm into being cuck
Hey everyone,
So I've been lurking here for a while, and I figured this is the perfect place to get some thoughts or maybe just vent a little. I've got this thing I've been dying to confess to my girlfriend, and I'm kinda nervous about how to do it. Here's the deal: I'm super into the idea of being a cuck. Like, the thought of her with another guy while I watch or even just know about it? It drives me wild. The twist is, she's already into MMF stuff, so I feel like the door's halfway open-but I'm still freaking out about laying it all out there.
We've done some MMF threesomes before, and she's clearly into it. She loves the attention, the energy, all of it. Watching her in those moments is honestly the hottest thing I've ever experienced, but we've never really talked about me stepping back and letting it be more about her and another dude. I don't know how to shift from "we're doing this together" to "I want you to take it further, I'm cool just being on the sidelines."
I guess my confession isn't just that I like it-l want her to know I'd be okay with her having that freedom, maybe even without me in the mix sometimes. I'm not sure if that's gonna weird her out or if she'll think I'm pulling away emotionally (which I'm not!). She's super open-minded, but I still feel this knot in my stomach thinking about saying it out loud.
Has anyone here been in a spot like this? How did you bring it up? Did it change things with your partner? Or if you're on the other side-someone whose partner confessed this-what would you want to hear to make it feel safe and sexy instead of awkward? I just want her to know I'm all in on her pleasure, however it looks.
Thanks for any tips or stories! I'm dying to get this off my chest and see where it takes us.
Posted Mar 16, 2025, 1:05 AM UTC