First Timers, Repeat Offenders, Lurkers [M4F] CA NorCal

Maybe you have been browsing these subs for awhile hoping to find one that caught your attention enough to make you want to respond. Or one that you did respond to that kept you interested after the first few messages. I could be that guy.

30’s married white guy. Tall, fit, conventionally handsome, health is a priority, avid weightlifter, educated and well spoken. I have my shit together and you should too.

I’m in Northern California and I’d need you to be as well. I am not interested in Online Only.

Open to feelings if they naturally happen, but not necessarily looking for love.

Dealing with a marriage that is lacking in several areas and hoping I can find someone to fill the voids.

I’m not divorcing my wife and I’m not going to ask you to leave your husband.

Looking for mutual attraction, connection, great and consistent conversation, effort, and chemistry we develop over time.

My Opsec is solid and I need the same from you. Discretion is everything.

If you’re an avid gamer or anime person, sorry to say we probably aren’t a match.

Hope to hear from my match. If the ad is still up, I’m still looking