What towns or neighborhoods elsewhere in America are like the NoVa suburbs - specifically Reston, Shirlington, and Del Ray Alexandria?

For those not familiar, those are towns in the DC suburbs. They are not cities although they are part of the urban sprawl, so if you have a city to recommend please include the neighborhood. Would love to hear non-95 corridor options especially. Do not care about CoL, state location, politics, or if its a rural/urban/suburban environment.

All of this is walkable/bikeable:

1. Walkable grocery store that are actually nice (moms, wegmans, harris teeter/king sooper, etc not like giant eagle, tops, weiss for ex)
2. Restaurants of a variety of price points and like style (fast casual, buffet, family, etc)
3. Events take place in the town square whether its ice skating or farmers markets
4. Lots of parks and trails that connect the town end to end - bonus for lakes, golf courses, baseball fields, etc
5. Community engagement that is VERY well attended - libraries, book clubs, run clubs, little league, adult masters swim, bars hold trivia
6. Bike trail/rail trail access
7. Walkable elementary school
8. Lots of kids activities occurring
9. Super dog friendly from parks to breweries
10. People are active, do a lot of things, and don't just drink for fun

Bonus:

1. Near a lot of high paying employers
2. Access to those high paying employers via public transit/walkability/bikeability
3. Other things in town - public golf courses, swimming pools, hiking trails, art studios - basically the town has more than just bars
4. Arts - which this area admittedly did not have. Would love a local art guild, classes, musuem, something
5. Proximity to state/national parks area

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