30 [F4M] - NYC/Online - Searching for a pocket friends with benefits that can become more if we vibe.

Hi!

This is a bit different than what’s usually posted on this sub I think. We can find a time that works for both of us where we can set aside a few hours. Looking to have what starts as a benign voice chat with someone. It’s very casual, we’re just shooting the shit and getting to know each other. At some point, we start touching ourselves. You don’t have to tell the other person what that point is. From there, we keep going and try to focus on the conversation as much as we can. That is, until we succumb to all the nice little noises and sounds we want to make 😌

Other random preferences of mine that you should know: someone in the age range of 28-39. A little funny, a lot cute. I generally prefer taller / fitter guys with floppy hair and pretty eyes. We all like banter; we'll know if we got it pretty quickly. Not looking for anyone partnered / married / still emotionally connected to a partner / ex. Also not looking for anyone who is into extreme kinks / fetishes (I'm sorry, I just like balance 😌, but also this by no means translates to me being vanilla). Would be down to meet up if the chemistry is correct. Also, happy to exchange pictures when that feels right as well, but I do value discretion and privacy, especially at the start of everything while we're getting to know each other. :) My type is Gojo Satoru mixed with Andy Samberg. Do with that what you will. Searching for something long term with potential to develop into a real relationship -- I'm not great with short term situations. Ideally looking for someone in the same time zone (EST), or someone with plans to be in the same time zone soon!

Down to make this a long term thing if it works out (especially if we work on both the friends and benefits fronts). Open to discussion about meeting if we click. Willing to move off Reddit quickly. Give me something to work with in your first message; I likely won’t respond to a simple “hey” or “hi” or “let’s fuck”. Voice notes get you to the front of the line, nice voices get me into your DMs.