Broke up after 4 dates

We were seeing each other for only 3 weeks, but we had a big bonding (or it felt like it). We had deep talks about life and he said he looks for someone to stay in good aswell as in bad times and asked me many questions what I want from man, about my future plan etc. So, I had a really tough week and we met for our fourth date, which was short. I wasn't mentally and physically in a good state, but tried to not show him. But I guess he felt the negative energy. We agreed to meet two days later for a proper date and to spend the whole day. But after the short date, he ghosted me two days. Then he sent me, it would be better to be just friends. I called him and we talked for a hour and he said he didn't feel that I am grateful that he came all the way to my town (we live quite far) and that he invests more than me, and so on. I think there was a lot of misunderstanding so I explained and apologized for a few things. And I asked him to give me the chance to make it up but he refused. He said we can meet as friends once I calmed down and am over my feelings .. I just wonder since then. Does someone throw everything away just because of one not so good Date? I mean, he seemed to really like me and said he misses me and „that he is lucky to meet such a good person". I really felt he liked me, but maybe I was wrong. In my case, I also didn't feel good after the fourth date and didn't contact him for a day. But after that, ! started to miss him again. So I think for me, if one date goes wrong but the others were good / Ilike the person in general, I can overcome that Share