Are my trusting problems and lack of empathy a problem for dating and meeting women?

Hello,Redditors,I am a 22 (M) and had trouble with dating,because in these past few years,I had a very rough life,and I don't trust nobody and/or anything,

(not overreacting,I don't trust even my parents/ that is another story), it got to that point.

And to women I seem weird and looking them up and down,and too serious.But I can't seem to relax myself with someone I don't trust.

I thought it would be that I was maybe shy,but I have the confidence and speak normally with women and I am not ugly,I am 6"0 handsome man,always hygiened and dressing well

What is wrong with me???How do I turn that blockage in my brain that doesn't want to try anything with women? How do I open myself up more and try more to be open and relaxed with women?